Birds know if you are going to harm them..
Today, I was very fortunate to meet a very nice chap, who is a retired engineer and also an avid gardener. He is kind, interesting, talkative, friendly and obviously enjoying his adventures as a gardener.
He’s lived in Swanwick for nearly 50 years now and went to school in South Normanton as a lad. He spent many years at Rolls Royce and now enjoys some of his free time crafting a beautiful little haven at the back of his property – affectionately named as “Dad’s Garden”.
It’s nice to chat with someone on the same wavelength and when he said to me “Birds know if you are going to harm them” it made me smile – because I knew exactly what he meant in an instance.
Just a few moments before saying it, two small birds had appeared from the bushes at the back of the garden to land just a feet or two from where we were standing.
He recounted that one day, he was sat out the back on his little swing seat and one landed right on his head! Takes me back to when I first read “The Secret Garden” when I was 7 or 8 years old. I’m sure what he says is true. Animals do have an intelligence about who to trust and I like to test this out especially with birds, by not doing anything that might scare them and see how close they are prepared to get. I think most Gardeners have an affinity with birds – usually you befriend a little Robin or a Blackbird that has slowly got to trust you over time.
As you can see from the above picture, his garden haven is quite small – it’s divided into two sections – the planting being dominant in the foreground and split by the green wooden screen with encapsulated trellis, behind which, is a seating area, the greenhouse and a small border area too.
The greenhouse laden with Geraniums
It’s a lovely space to sit in and you could chew the cud and put the world to rights for hours I’m sure.
In his words, there’s a lot more to see that’s still in the ground and I would love to go back and see more in the summer.
He opened up the picture gallery on his smartphone and showed me a stunning display of Dahlias.
It’s still early Spring, so there’s plenty of time for the spaces to fill out – but here’s a selection of some of the Springtime plants in bloom.
I guess there’s two things to take away from my visit today – It doesn’t matter how old you are you can still “potter about” in the garden – you might not be able to do everything yourself – but don’t give up on the things you can do because they account for a lot of the pleasure and contentment in your life.
And the second – We have all have so much more in common than we think or dare to believe.
A lovely chap, a great conversation and I hope to go back again at some point (maybe with some biscuits next time). 🙂